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Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 4:13 pm
by Bonecollecter1111
quackhead11 wrote:Very well said Bonecollector1111.
well theres a first time for everything. i have lost some good friends because
i am no good at saying it "well" and that loss has made me strive to do a better job of it.
i will say that married men often do not give their unmarried friends an explanation when the wife is uncomfortable with a potetial situation, and if they do, it is not the whole story(for the whole story usually is too embarrassing to tell).
unmarried men, be patient with your married brethern for until you walk in their shoes, you have no clue
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 4:37 pm
by ol'man
marshman wrote:MrGoodtime wrote:ducknbuck1 wrote:Your relationship is only as good as your trust is for her. I wouldn't have a problem with it. I trust my wife. Not saying I would trust the other guy, however I would trust my wife to do the right thing..
+1000
Well i do trust her totally, so I will trust her to do the right thing too. The trial is not till MArch so theres some time and things may change untill then. Thanks to everyone who chimed in.
Marshman, I think you just answered your own question.
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 5:41 pm
by MSDawg870
I'd go with trust or a chastity belt.
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 5:57 pm
by Dux Be Us
Mmmmmm...sounds a little too Jerry Springer for me. I wouldnt let my wife be put into that position if I didnt know this fella myself. Trust in her would not be the issue
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 6:16 pm
by donia
Bonecollecter1111 wrote: unmarried men...........until you walk in their shoes, you have no clue
NONE!!!!
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 10:47 am
by Seymore
I gave this scenario to my wife to get her view and she said your wife should have never even mentioned it. Respect goes both ways and for her to even suggest to you that she would stay with a guy she had a "relationship" with is not showing you much respect. Hate to be that blunt but you did ask.
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 11:44 am
by judge jb
once again, i agree with seymore
judge jb
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 12:38 pm
by gps4
If the tables were turned, would she have a problem with you statying a week with an old friend with benefits?
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 1:35 pm
by RIPPY
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 2:53 pm
by crow
If you make the decision, either way, you are wrong! If you give her pemission, will she respect you less for "not caring enough?" If you say no, you don't trust her.
I'd put it right back in my wife's lap if she ever put me in that position. I'd say, "Darlin', I respect and trust you to make the right choice. You know what the right thing to do is, so it's your call."
Then, you have to let her make the decision and the chips will fall as they may. But you were not the cause of it.
crow
Re: Question for you guys...what would you do???
Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 9:43 pm
by Seymore
crow wrote:If you make the decision, either way, you are wrong! If you give her pemission, will she respect you less for "not caring enough?" If you say no, you don't trust her.
I'd put it right back in my wife's lap if she ever put me in that position. I'd say, "Darlin', I respect and trust you to make the right choice. You know what the right thing to do is, so it's your call."
Then, you have to let her make the decision and the chips will fall as they may. But you were not the cause of it.
crow
Yep, this is one of those "so, have you stopped beating your wife yet" type questions. Either way, you lose. It was wrong for her to put you in that position to make that kind of choice.
