southernr wrote:i don't think there are that many snake lovers in the world. its not like bambi. these are snakes. and yeah most of them are good. but then again most spiders probably won't hurt you but i kill all of them too. those are 2 things i can't handle. sorry. and i'm not sure why i developed this phobia. i used to run through the woods all day long when i was a kid and never thought twice about it.
You were taught to be. I'm saying this to insult you or your parents at all, so please don't take it that way. It's just the truth. When my mom taught kindergarden, my dad used to take our desert king snake up there for show and tell. ALL the kids would always want to hold it, and it was usually a girl who came up first. They hadn't been taught to fear snakes yet. My dad taught me and my brother not to be afraid of snakes and we aren't. I was at Double R 2's house Thursday night and his youngest son was walking around with his pet king snake balled up in his hand. He was taught not to be afraid of snakes either. It's all in your upbringing.