16 year old boy with hormones

[tombstone]

I always heard if you kill the first boy that comes around that word will get out.

In my bible beside Proverbs 22:6 there is a note taken from a sermon that says" this is a proverb, not a promise" I will do my best to follow it either way. With 2 girls (oldest is only 5) I do a lot of praying and try to use every chance I get to take care of business now, so it won't be so hard later.

There is a lot of great advice in this thread. I certainly believe that threatening them with their life can't hurt. Neither can showing them the "black gun" that is in the collection

I know every road in this county and don't really need much sleep anymore. I WILL follow them, show up at their friend's house, hide on the back row of the movies, or whatever it takes to do all that I need to do. That being said, You can only do your best. We have all seen great parents and rotten kids. No one can really explain it, but sometimes it just happens. As your child EARNS TRUST, you will know how to handle it. Squash them when they break that trust. When it is all said and down and I have to give an account on how I handled my most prize possesions, i don't want to be squirming.

[LostBoy]

I agree the threat of violence can't hurt but showing your guns or the typical touch my daughter and I'll whup yo booty speech most teenagers can see through as a threat and nothing more.

My Uncle had two daughters. Onetime, as a date was waiting on my cousin to get ready he asked her date what time he would be returning with his daughter. "'Bout 12:00 or 1:00" date replied. Uncle said "Movies are over at 9:30, I expect her to be in my house by 10:30 or there will be hell to pay" Date replied "You can't do anything to me I'm a minor and your an adult" Uncle said, "That’s right and being an adult I got a job, which means I have three crisp one hundred dollar bills in my pocket and if you leave here with my daughter I am going to go to town and walk into the back door of the McDonalds and I am going to find the three biggest, meanest jiggers in there give them your picture and tell them if this boy gets an booty beatin that puts him in the hospital they will get three hundred dollars no questions asked". Boy leaves tells my cousin next week at school that he had gotten sick. NEVER heard from him again.

My point is KNOW WHERE YOUR CHILD IS SUPOSED TO BE and CHECK UP ON THEM.

If you are going to threaten violance , get creative.

[bannerk]

thats is my nephews breeding grounds haha you better watch out them tupelo girls get down from what i hear seymore

[tombstone]

I agree the threat of violence can't hurt but showing your guns or the typical touch my daughter and I'll whup yo booty speech most teenagers can see through as a threat and nothing more.

My Uncle had two daughters. Onetime, as a date was waiting on my cousin to get ready he asked her date what time he would be returning with his daughter. "'Bout 12:00 or 1:00" date replied. Uncle said "Movies are over at 9:30, I expect her to be in my house by 10:30 or there will be hell to pay" Date replied "You can't do anything to me I'm a minor and your an adult" Uncle said, "That’s right and being an adult I got a job, which means I have three crisp one hundred dollar bills in my pocket and if you leave here with my daughter I am going to go to town and walk into the back door of the McDonalds and I am going to find the three biggest, meanest jiggers in there give them your picture and tell them if this boy gets an booty beatin that puts him in the hospital they will get three hundred dollars no questions asked". Boy leaves tells my cousin next week at school that he had gotten sick. NEVER heard from him again.

My point is KNOW WHERE YOUR CHILD IS SUPOSED TO BE and CHECK UP ON THEM.

If you are going to threaten violance , get creative.

That is great stuff

You point is absolutely correct!

[Scully]

I have 4 daughters between 6 and 15. This is one of my biggest fears as a father- a testosterone over dosed teenage male. I like the $300 idea....enough truth to it to make it effective.

[champcaller]

dads hate me............. moms love me


jk


i never know i might end up datin one of yalls daughters

[greenheadgrimreaper]

Well I use to be known to smoke a little happy backy back in my high school days and still like a cold beer. My g/f of 4 years really helped me from going down the wrong road. Her dad used to be a wild one too when he was in high school so he knew the drill. We went for a little ride one day and needless to say I never took another toke after that!

Word of advice give em a chance it might be the best thing that happens to the boy. There aint nothin' more intimidating than being on a backroad just you and the girls dad and having a talk about the effect of pocket knives on the penis.

[JDgator]

Seymore:

If you want me to hack into his personal computer and/or cellphone, let me know.

[dukmisr2005]

I LIKE THE IDEA OF TRUSTING YOUR CHILD TO A POINT. I THINK ITS A GOOD IDEA TO SIT THEM BOTH DOWN BEFORE THE FIRST DATE AND TELL THEM WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM EACH OF THEM. TELL THEM YOU TRUST THEM TO DO RIGHT. AS LONG AS THEY KEEP THAT TRUST THEY CAN DATE AND BE ALONE BUT IF ITS BROKEN THEY MAY OR MAY NOT EARN IT BACK. HAVE TO SHOW THEM THAT YOU TRUST THEM TO A POINT.

MOST OF THE GIRLS I DATED I GOT ALONG GREAT WITH THEIR PARENTS. I USUALLY WALKED IN CONFIDENT, GOOD MANNERS, AND OBEYED THEIR GROUND RULES. I WOULD INTRODUCE MYSELF AND SHAKE DAD'S HAND FIRMLY AND TALK A FEW MINUTES BEFORE WE LEFT.. JUST OUT OF CURTSY TO THEM.

I THINK YOU SHOW RESPECT YOU WILL GET RESPECT..

[Doc & Nash]

Cell Phones know have GPS tracking, I suggest you activate on your daughters.

As a matter of fact, I need to check and see if I can have it activated on ours.

[dukmisr2005]

YEAH BUT HOW TO YOU TRACK IT?? SHE PROBABLY KNOWS MORE ABOUT ALL THAT THAN YOU DO.. HECK I 3 YO AND GET AROUND A COMPUTER AS WELL AS I CAN..

[bodeen]

YEAH BUT HOW TO YOU TRACK IT?? SHE PROBABLY KNOWS MORE ABOUT ALL THAT THAN YOU DO.. HECK I 3 YO AND GET AROUND A COMPUTER AS WELL AS I CAN..

Good point.

[Seymore]

I came in this evening and he and she were in her room with the door closed. First thing is that really bothers me. I don't want them sitting in the house behind a closed door. My wife asked me what I was going to do and I said just watch.

I went to the door and knocked, she opened and I asked if they were both behaving themselves to which they said yes, I then actually said that was good because I didn't mind going back to prison. He kind of chuckled and my wife said what. Told them I was getting a lot of good advice on this topic and that was the tamer thing I had read so they better watch it.

I then took our two year old and told them here. If you are going to sit with the door closed, you can watch your sister. To which she protested they were in the middle of a card game. I told her that was fine things came up in life that got in the way of card games and alot of other stuff. Like two year olds. They needed to remember that when they were sitting in the back of the house.

My daughter left totally humiliated and embarrased. My wife hasn't quit laughing.

[ducky1]

When my wife and I first started dating, we were at her house watching tv and her dad comes in and says hey and heads up stairs. After a while he comes back down and hands me a coin and tells me to read it. X number of years with US Army Delta Force. Never had to say another word.

[Duck Nawteek]

Seymore it sounds like you have gotten point across well. I can remember one time when I went to this girls house for the first time, met the parents and everything was going good, yes sir and yes maam, Yes I'll have her back by 11, blaugh, blaugh, blaugh, I had one thing on my mind. The dad had not given me the talk or anything until we were walking out to the car. Then all of the sudden I hear BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hit the ground and almost $#!+ in my pants. Her crazyass dad pulls out his 44 and fires it off right off the front porch. He camly said "yep it still works" oh and yall have a good time and don't be late. They lived out in the county so it did'nt matter that he fired this loud booty pistol off. I took her to the end of the driveway and asked her if she just wanted to go rent a movie and come back here So for all you dads that live out in the county fire away it really works!!!!!!!!!!!!!!